A friend in need is a friend indeed, or so the old adage goes. In other
words, a real friend is one who is supportive in times of need. Just
like the Friends of Fairvern.
It’s those friends who attend to the needs of the residents by
providing programs and raising funds through a variety of activities to
purchase items for the benefit of the residents.
Fairvern, situated on quiet, residential Church Street with
beautiful gardens overlooking the Muskoka River, celebrated its 25th
anniversary earlier this year.
The Friends of Fairvern organization is also 25 years old. Founded
by the late Helen Twiddy, the volunteer group currently numbers about
80 members under the leadership of president Jan Hares.
“I do enjoy the old people. They are so sweet,” said Hares. “I take
photos at all the All Saints’ parties we hold at the home and then give
them to the residents. The smiles on their faces are so rewarding.”
The Friends help the staff in a variety of ways, from the moment a resident enters the home.
“When a new admission comes in a member of the Friends will greet
the family and show them around the facility. We want to make them feel
welcome,” explained Hares.
The volunteers also help residents in need of assistance at meal
times, and will spend time reading to them. The Friends host a foot
clinic every month, transporting residents to and from the clinic.
Other programs include music two or three times a week, hair care,
walks in the garden, pet visits, a breakfast club and the popular
Sunday teas.
Volunteer Joy McCaskill, a recipient of an Ontario Long Term Care
Association (OLTCA) Circle of Excellence Certificate, is in charge of
the teas, which she has done for many years, said Hares.
“In May we have a Mothers’ Day Tea for the Friends of Fairvern and
they can bring along a relative, special friend, or a neighbour. Anyone
is welcome,” Hares said.
“In October we have a President’s Tea and award our volunteers for their years of service.”
This year there were seven service award recipients. Grace Newman
(20 years), Anita Denny, Joan Lassiter and Doris Sachsse (15 years),
Bill Andrews (10 years) and Wanda Tizzard and Opal Magladry (five
years).
The Friends run a small gift shop on the main floor adjacent to the
sunroom. “We always need volunteers to help run the shop,” said Hares.
Other programs offered to the residents include the All Saints’
Church theme parties once a month, plus the Friends will help out when
asked, for example at Fairvern’s recent 25th anniversary celebration.
Raising money is also a priority for the Friends.
“Our fundraisers include barbecues, tag days and bake sales. We also
have homemade pies for sale which are made in the hobby kitchen.”
The frozen, uncooked fruit pies sell for $7 and are available in a
freezer located in the main floor sunroom. “There’s a cash box on the
window sill. We work on an honour system,” said Hares. “We make over
$500 in a year from the sale of our pies, so it’s a good fundraiser for
us.”
In addition to their own fundraising activities, the Friends rely on
donations and most recently received a cheque for $1,336 from matron
and patron Verna Rickward and Bill Earl of the Order of the Eastern
Star, Lake of Bays chapter. “The Friends were the recipients of their
Eastern Star project this year,” said Hares.
They also received a cheque for $1,000 from a men’s coffee group. “They wanted to stay anonymous.”
The money raised by the Friends determines what equipment on Fairvern’s wish list they can buy.
“We receive a list of things needed for the residents early in the year and then we make our choices,” said Hares.
Some of the numerous items that have been purchased over the years
include rocking chairs, shower trolleys, televisions, a refreshment
cart, china for the dining room, bedside tables and much, much more.
Finally, every resident at Fairvern receives a birthday card on their special day. No one is forgotten.
As with any volunteer organization, helping hands are always
welcome. Anyone who might be interested in offering a few hours to
assist at Fairvern is asked to call the Friends’ volunteer co-ordinator
Marlene Schell at 789-4363.